Thursday, January 23, 2014

Richard Sherman - Social Media Black-lash, Trash Talking, and a Shout Out to His Haters!

This whole situation with social medias, racially charged BLACK-lash toward Richard Sherman after his post-game interview, following the Seattle Seahawks win over San Francisco last Sunday, was and still is completely out of control!  

I don’t know Richard Sherman personally and I'm not a fan of the Seahawks, although I did enjoy watching them spank the 49ers last week! :-) But really, this man needs no “defense”.  His defense on and off the field, speaks for itself!  Just ask Michael "I'm mad" Crabtree.  

Richard Sherman makes a season-saving play — in front of Michael Crabtree Sunday night.
http://www.nydailynews.com/sports/football/lupica-don-sherman-act-deal-article-1.1585376#ixzz2rH5ZYa8C

To add insult to injury to this entire situation, I don't hear anybody talking about much the childish, poor sportsmanship displayed physically by Crabtree, toward Sherman after the game.  If Sherman was the "thug" that people tried to say he is, he would have knocked Crabtree's head clean off his shoulders and dropped it off on his momma front stoop, for such an infraction!

"The only reason it bothers me is that it seems like it’s the accepted way of calling people the n-word nowadays.  What’s the definition of a thug,really? Can a guy on the football field, just talking to people — maybe I’m talking loudly, or doing something I’m not supposed to be. But there was a hockey game where they didn’t even play hockey, they just threw the puck aside and started fighting. I saw that and I thought, 'Oh man, I’m a thug?' So I’m really disappointed in being called a thug." Richard Sherman



Sherman says 'good game,' Crabtree gives him the Heisman treatment. (USATSI)
http://www.cbssports.com/nfl/eye-on-football/24418110/richard-sherman-micd-up-tells-michael-crabtree-hell-of-game

Anyway, before I give my 25 cents worth, first I have a question.  Did Roger Goodell ban"trash talking" from the NFL and I missed the memo?  Trash talking has been around since long before Richard Sherman ever suited up and hit the field.  Sports fans probably do the most trash talking of all.  So what da problem is?  Oh, I guess these people who called themselves "going in" on Sherman have never done that...been excited, spoken from the heart, expressed themselves openly and honestly and intensely!?!?  Or I suppose when they did it, they were polite, humble and low key! Yeah right, whatever!

Sherman had just helped his team (in a major way) to win the NFC Championship.  Something he has probably worked for and dreamed about since childhood.  So what he got caught up in the heat of the moment?  So what he talked trash and proclaimed himself as the best cornerback in the league!  Isn’t he allowed to feel that way about himself?  Or is he allowed to feel that way, just as long as he doesn’t piss off his opponents or offend the delicate sensitivities of a female FOX sports caster? (Please...Don't even get me started on the FOX Network!)  

I don’t know how you can be a top performing athlete or anything else in life and not believe when you step out on your field of play, that you are the best out there, whether you say it out loud or not.  If you look at athletes like Muhammad Ali, Deion Sanders, Floyd Mayweather Jr., WWF wrestlers, etc., they always talked "trash" (in Floyd's case...is still talking) but they could back it up. Some use it as a mental tactic to pump themselves up and get motivated.  I've heard that "if you don't believe it, no one else will".  That's real talk!

http://www.totalprosports.com/2014/01/19/seahawks-richard-sherman-post-game-interview-with-erin-andrews-video/


Call Richard Sherman “arrogant” or “cocky” or whatever you want, but if he can back it up, isn't that called "pride" or "confidence"?  Are his personal feelings about his own abilities exaggerated or accurate?  I guess that’s a matter of public opinion also, how people should or shouldn’t view themselves.  While I personally don't care for a bunch of lip service and would rather see results, who am I to judge when it's okay for someone to talk about how great they think they are?  Who is anyone to make that call on someone else? Why do we have to label it as anything and really, who freakin' cares???

If you ask me, Richard Sherman was being his truest, most authentic self at that moment!  Nothing more and nothing less.  

Or is the bigger issue not so much what he said but that he’s a Black man who said it? Go ahead, take your time and think about it.  I’ll wait…..*crickets chirping in the background*


http://sports.yahoo.com/photos/top-12-richard-sherman-faces-slideshow/


It seems to me that no matter what, the written or unwritten standards of “appropriate” and “acceptable” behavior are, those rules are always different for people of color.  We are held to a higher standard and even when we rise to the challenge, it’s still not quite good enough.  There’s still and maybe always will be a great portion of the population who fear a strong, opinionated, outspoken Black man (woman).  You know what I’m talking about….a real “fancy pants” or “uppity” nigger who doesn’t know his/her “place”.  Oh yeah I said it! Hell, I've been called "it" in not so many words.

Suffice to say, I expected the racial under and OVER tones in the comments that would be made about him, so I wasn’t shocked by it….just really irritated and saddened.  Post racial America my ass!  This wasn't just backlash this was Blacklash!!!

What pained me more, were some of the comments being made by other people of color.  Things like “We’ve just been sent back 500 years”.  Sadly, this speaks to the fact that some of us still hate ourselves for the color of our own skin.  We still see ourselves as separate from God and therefore we see everyone else that way.  And after all this time, some of us actually still believe the bullshit that has been engrained in us, generation after generation, about who were are (less than or of no value) and how we should behave, speak, and aspire to be or be like in this society.  A society still predominantly run by some of the most corrupt, immoral, self-serving people ever!  Some who would sell their own mother’s to stay in control and make a profit off the backs of others.  And before anybody gets their panties in a bunch, I am speaking in generalities here, so if the shoe doesn’t fit, you can relax.  If you’re uncomfortable in your own skin and would rather not hear the truth, feel free to close this post and stick your head back in the sand.  I’m not here to babysit anybody’s feelings or insecurities.

I’m talking about the “haves” and the “have not’s”.  Those who hold the power (money), control and who have sold us ALL the illusion of “freedom”.  Versus those of us who fail to decipher the code and continue to “buy in” to their propaganda and lies .  But that’s a subject for a different day.

To get back to the matter at hand.  People couldn’t wait to hit social media with their usual messiness within seconds of the Sherman interview.  He was called crazy, uneducated, a thug, a disgrace, a “stereotypical unprofessional nigger”,  “an overpaid, classless embarrassment to professional sports”...amongst other things. Really people?! 





Check your facts:  Richard Sherman grew up in Compton, CA, an inner suburb of Los Angeles and notorious for gang violence and crime, especially around the time when Sherman was becoming a young man.  You should educate yourself about that too, as the media has exaggerated a lot of the Compton hype like they do everything else.  In spite of the odds stacked against him, Sherman finished high school with a 4.2 GPA (2nd in his class) and then went on to EARN a Communications degree from Stanford (the 15th highest rated university in the country).  So make no mistake about it, Richard Sherman is FAR from being a "thug".  He's a success story! He started from the bottom, now he's here...and he's not done yet!!!  And he’s probably smarter than 99% of the people who had something negative and/or ignorant to say about him!

"I know some thugs and they know I’m the furthest thing from a thug. I’ve fought that my whole life, just coming from where I come from. Just because you hear Compton, you heard Watts, cities like that you think, ‘Thug. He’s a gangster. He’s this, that, and the other.’ And then you hear Stanford and that doesn’t make sense, it’s an oxymoron. To fight it for so long, and have to hear it come up again, it’s frustrating." Richard Sherman



Sherman recently told Sports Illustrated:
"Things I do probably look like madness, like I'm totally out of control, but there's always a plan. It's part of a greater scheme to get some eyes, to grow the market, to grow Seattle."

http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/envelope/cotown/la-et-ct-horsey-on-hollywood-richard-sherman-20140121,0,7685217.story#axzz2rHCemYYK



Richard Sherman has a foundation for kids who need help getting through school and he ACTIVELY participates in his foundation.  It's not just some fly by night, 501 organization set up to hide money and evade taxes.  If people ever took the time to listen to this man speak or bothered to read any of his printer interviews, it’s clear how passionate he is and how much he wants to make a difference for these young people. He wants to give them a fighting chance to achieve their goals and crush the stereotypes about athletes not being educated, not caring about school and only aspiring to be ball players, gang bangers and drug dealers. 

He doesn’t have an arrest record on the books and has never used profanity in a post-game interview.  The man hasn’t even be accused being a dirty player on or off the field.  And yet the people who know nothing about this man except the raw emotion he showed one night, in a loud stadium, with thousands of fans, photographers and news media buzzing around, after winning the biggest game of his life so far, have so much to say!  The same people, who probably curse, yell, stomp and scream at their TV screens week after week, while our favorite (or not so favorite) athletes do what they do to feed their families and entertain us.  All while at the risk of permanently injuring themselves or ending up with brain damage!  Com’on man.  Enough is enough already.

Stop the madness!  Stay in your lane, worry about what you do or don’t do and let everybody else breathe!  Athletes and all other celebrities don't owe you anything.  They only owe themselves.  At the end of day they are human just like everybody else.  Don't be so quick to judge a book by it's cover before reading every page!  Then go back and read it again!

We all have our own way of responding to situations and stimuli.  There’s nothing wrong with being or doing things differently.  Whether it's the way we look, dress, speak, dance, whatever!  The media and many other folks are so quick to paint a picture of who they think someone is, without ever taking the time to look beyond that one action…that one moment a person does something THEY feel is so terrible!!!  Whether they realize it or not, the fact that they felt the need to criticize him for his actions says more about THEM and their insecurities than it could ever say about him and his lack of anything.  If you’re a sports fan or athlete and you’ve never talked trash or had an outburst of emotion...I can’t even talk to you!  Because clearly you don’t even exist. That or you’re an alien with unbelievable super powers and mental abilities.

So, since Richard Sherman’s PR team and coach have probably asked him to stifle himself, I've decided to be his "Luther" and say it for him.  "To all the news media profit hounds trying to get story in by your deadline.  To anyone who has bashed, bullied or otherwise felt the need to try to humiliate someone for your own self-gratification or because you just naturally suck as a human being.  And finally, to all the Richard Sherman haters around the world.   F@ck you and your ignorant, irrelevant, over-exaggerated, hyper-critical, super-ridiculous, mean-spirited, judgmental, plain old disrespectful backlash.  Let me be “me” and you go do you.  Cause I’m still the best at doing me and you can only be you!” 

If you don't know who "Luther" is, Google "key and peele luther". LOL

Now back to my regularly scheduled programming (de-programming)…I need to meditate!  I let these folks work my last nerve with all their non-sense!




Peace and blessings,


Stiletto Dagger

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